What Game Are We Playing?

by Irene Schiff

The vicious circle: from cognitive development to possible psychological dependence.


Playing games is crucial for the emotional, cognitive and social development of small children who discover their own body, their environment, and others. To play is therefore equivalent to inventing, imagining and building.
It is no coincidence that the more evolved animals play together and with their little ones because playing promotes learning while having fun doing it.
Kids could play forever, then you become "big" and weighty and serious commitments take up a lot of our time limiting and changing the concept of play.
It can be said that there is no playing, though games do exist. There are in fact various types of games and here are the most common:
games of imitation; frequent in children (but not only them) where there is a high component of fantasy and one wants to be another person or thing. It goes from impersonating Zorro to a race car driver like Schumacher.
There are board games where the goal is to spend fun time with friends; stakes will enhance the game, but winning them is not the ultimate purpose;
competitive games and sports here win the lion's share;
gambling games where the challenge lies with destiny; if we win we are stronger than the others, if we lose it is not our fault but only bad luck. These unpredictable games
(aleatory, in latin 'alea' means 'die', do you remember the phrase by Julius Caesar as he crossed the Rubicon “Alea iacta est” in other words “The die has been cast”?), these games, as we were saying, are increasing significantly and available in various easy and attractive forms.
We find them everywhere: game rooms, bars, convenience stores, but also on TV, computers and cell phones. Psychological dependence and
turnover are rising constantly. And so it has gone from Homo Ludens to pathological gambler. The English word "game" underlies playing, gambling, courage, hunting territory, but it also has a negative connotation of laming, mind-numbing. Obviously, it is what and how you play that makes the difference, and distinguishes the Homo Ludens from the pathological gambler. The gambler loses contact with reality, spends hours at the computer or at the playstation, especially when the game is linked with financial gains, the desire to win, bets; it can turn into a real addiction or obsession.

Do you want to discover how you are by "playing" while taking this test?

1)) You must leave on a trip on Tuesday and a proverb says that one should not get married or leave on a Friday or on a Tuesday, you
a) leave home with peace of mind
b) leave home with a feeling of doubt
c) postpone the trip

2) You think "magicians" have:
a) special powers
b) particular cunning
c) nothing in particular

3) You had a strange dream, you:
a) think you ate too much
b) read the book for lottery numbers
c) read a book on the meaning of dreams

4) You are not satisfied with your work, you:
a) start looking for a new job
b) think all jobs are the same
c) are less committed to your work

5) You look at the stars
a) for the horoscope
b) because they are beautiful
c) to determine if it will rain tomorrow

6) Romantic is the partner who
a) never forgets an anniversary
b) agrees to see a movie with you that he or she hates
c) helps you when you need it

7) When it comes to deciding, you
a) prefer that someone else does it
b) will probably make the right decision
c) will probably make the wrong decision

8) There is a refuge on top of the mountain, you
a) go up there by foot;
b) think it is more beautiful to take the cable car;
c) think it is more convenient, but why should you go there?

9) You want to court a person who is already with someone else, you

a) try and see later what happens
b) insist for a long while
c) renounce

10) In your store, there is a defective product, you
a) take it away
b) leave it for sale
c) sell it with a discount


11) VTi proposes to make an appearance on TV, you
a) refuse
b) accept: it's a new experience
c) accept: everyone will see you

12) In love as in war all is fair
a) it's true
b) it depends
c) loyalty is best

13) A friend offers you an item that you do not like, you
a) keep it
b) ask if you can change it
c) give it to someone else

14) You made a mistake, you
a) blame someone else
b) make sure that no one notices
c) say you're sorry

15) The phrase you prefer
a) I wanted, I always wanted, I wanted to the utmost
b) the end justifies the means
c) tomorrow is another day

SCORE
Question A B C

Question

A

B

C

1)

1

2

1

2)

3

2

1

3)

1

3

2

4)

1

2

3

5)

3

1

2

6)

3

1

2

7)

3

2

1

8)

2

1

3

9)

2

3

1

10)

1

3

2

11)

1

2

3

12)

3

2

1

13)

1

2

3

14)

3

2

1

15)

1

3

2

EXPLANATIONS

FROM 45 TO 36 POINTS:
LIFE IS A GAME THAT MUST BE PLAYED
You find in games great satisfaction to the point of spending a lot of time at them, too much time. Be careful, you are not using a magic wand; games have nothing to do with reality, far away from it. It is better to be a normal person in reality than believing that you are a super hero in fantasy. And if money is involved...

FROM 35 TO 25 POINTS:
PLAYING ALONG
Games are there for enjoyment and to socialize and relax. You don't neglect your commitments and you consider them as a fun break between activities. Sometimes, games can involve some sort of prize or bet, but the stakes do not go beyond offering a coffee or, at most, a dinner. Enjoy your dinner and a good coffee.

FROM 24 TO 15 POINTS:
GAMES?
"Games?" That's the question children ask their friends and parents and, when the answer is yes, a big smile lights up their face. When did you stop smiling? Too many commitments? Too much of a sense of duty? Don't you think that finding time for playing is also a form of pleasant duty?

 

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